I totally agree with every single thing you had to say. Please come and pick J up today and take him some where, any where I really don’t give a shit anymore. Maybe you know of a service that will come and remove the addict from our home free of charge because I will not pay one more penny towards any part of his addiction OR RECOVERY…please by all means pass me that information. If anyone can let me know of a service that will convince my husband that this is the right course of action, please for the love of God get me that info too. I suppose I could throw myself on the floor and hold my breath until I turned blue to get my husband to agree to even go to a meeting or a therapist but I am pretty sure he would step over me on his way out the door…mumbling: I have to pay bills….gotta make money…mortgage, kids, college annnnnnnnnnddddddddd so on and so on.
I suppose I could leave….I am sure it would easy peasy lemon squeezie to find a hotel in the 10th richest county in the country, that will take two dogs and two kids that isn’t too far from their school. If I can’t pay for the hotel I will just sell my body when the kids are in school. Hopefully, a cot fits in the room so when my daughter comes home from college she has a place to sleep.
Email me I will send you my address so you can come and get him out of my house…cause you are right nobody should ever have to live like this.