He is working 30-40 hours a week. Paying some money back to his father. In general doing well right up until he doesn’t. Why is he testing me? How will he learn using and living here is unacceptable? I don’t want him to lose his job but I don’t want to do this anymore either. I am working up the energy to throw his ass out of my house. I just have to think of the logistics…like where? What do I let him take? How do I get him there? How do I keep him from returning home. I don’t want any more drama…I just want off this ride.
My husband is not quite on the same page as I am but, It will only be a matter of time before he wants off the crazy train to0. Until then I will be patient and I will plan his departure. This will kill my father (his grandfather) and I pray he never finds out. What was the point of paying all of his debt off?