Today we were served papers from superior court. J is in default of his student loan (think BIG money) and because my husband stuck his head in the sand so are we. Who knew co-signing a loan for my bright son to go to the college of his choice would be such a bad idea? I am shaking. I tried to warn my husband but he wasn’t hearing any of it, so I guess I buried my head in the sand too. Our credit is now in the toilet and we can not co-sign for my daughters college loan. My daughter is the most responsible and wonderful person a parent could wish for. This addiction thing is just the gift that keeps on giving. Today it does not matter how much I long to detach from this mess…it just ain’t gonna happen. I am just so PISSED.
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